Relationship Matters

We all have a choice in our relationships to attack, avoid or confide our partners. Confiding can be a risk but it helps improve communication and create more intimacy.

People who cannot stand up to abusive or disrespectful behavior will continue to be mistreated by their partners. You can change this pattern by making some changes in how you communicate with your partner.

Standing up for yourself is an important relationship skill. Instead of trying to prove your partner wrong, ask them to consider your needs and meet you halfway.

People assign various meanings to the same exact event. It’s important to get to the bottom of what things mean to connect with your partner and learn where they’re coming from.

It’s okay if you and your partner don’t agree on every issue. You are separate people with unique wants and needs. But that doesn’t mean your relationship can’t work.